Author: KikiFikar

Many people know the story of how I found Spartan training and racing. What they may not know is just how profoundly it changed my life. I can honestly say I will never return to my pre-Spartan days. Back then, my path was paved with shoulda… woulda… couldas.

Today, I look at things differently. I lean into my strengths and face whatever obstacle is thrown my way. And if there’s a way through it, I’ll find it.

Today I returned to the Spartan arena—not as a racer, but as a volunteer at a race held in New York’s legendary Citi Field. Each year I sign up to work an obstacle, cheer on fellow racers, and give a little something back to an organization that gave my life the jumpstart I never knew I needed.

The alarm rang at 3:15 a.m. By 4:15 a.m. my pal Sha Sha and I were headed into the city. We were the first two to arrive at the volunteer tent. After signing in, we grabbed our red volunteer shirts and hoodies for the day. Those red shirts are important—they let every racer know exactly who to turn to when they have a question, need help, or just need a little encouragement.

Before long we were stationed between the Weighted Burpee obstacle—15 burpees with a 55-pound weight for the gents or 33 pounds for the ladies—and my domain, the Multi Rig. Picture rows of hanging rings that racers must traverse, hand over hand, until they smack a cowbell signaling completion.

Simple in theory.

Not so simple after 15 weighted burpees.

As you can imagine, racers arrived at my obstacle already wiped out. I greeted them with a bullhorn and as much encouragement as my lungs could muster. If someone needed a breather, I guided them off to the side. Some people wanted to chat. Some ignored me and powered straight through. Everyone handles a challenge in their own way.

Then one racer tapped me on the shoulder.

“Can I talk to you for a second?”

He looked me straight in the eye and said quietly, “Look… I can’t do this anymore. This is insane.”

I paused for a moment, took a breath, and held his hand.

“Nothing we do in life is easy,” I told him. “One day you’ll have a bad day at work. Another day your child might get sick. Some days you’ll just want to throw in the towel. That’s what these obstacles are. Each one represents a different piece of adversity.”

He told me this was his first race.

I pointed down the course and explained that there were only five more obstacles after mine. When he crossed that finish line, he would be a Spartan forever. He might never race again—but he would always know what it meant to be one.

He gave me a fist bump and headed off down the line.

About an hour later, I was chasing a section of my obstacle flooring that the wind had decided to launch into orbit. Suddenly I felt a hand on my back.

It was him.

He held up his medal, kissed it, and said, “I am a Spartan because of you.”

I smiled and shook my head.

“No pal—that’s all you. Every time you believe you can… Spartan Up and you will.”

We hugged and he jogged off into the crowd.

And that, my friends, is the magic of the arena.

Wherever your race through life takes you, remember who you are and what you’re capable of. Obstacles will show up when you least expect them. Some will knock the wind out of you. Some will make you question whether you belong in the race at all.

But the finish line is always there for those who keep moving.

So dig deep, keep going, and when life throws a wall in front of you—

Spartan Up… and don’t ever let yourself down.

Daily Prompt 1850

Are you patriotic? What does that word even mean to you?

For me, it has always meant something simple and steady. Something that lives in the quiet corners of memory and shows up in the loudest moments of celebration.

I’ve always loved our Memorial Day parade marching down the main drag of our little town. It was the unofficial start of summer — sunscreen, lawn chairs, neighbors calling out to one another, and the hum of anticipation in the air. We would march each year with different community groups. My very first memory is walking beside my Dad with the Knights of Columbus.

We assembled in the train station parking lot, a sea of familiar faces. Someone handed each of us a small American flag on a wooden stick. I remember gripping mine tightly, the thin stick warm in my hand. We walked through town waving to friends and family, flags fluttering in the May breeze.

I loved holding that flag.

Even as a child, I knew it stood for something bigger than our small town. Bigger than the parade. It stood for sacrifice. For freedom. For possibility. I may not have known all the history yet, but I felt it.

Years later, when our kids were young, we took a trip to Baltimore and boarded the ferry to Fort McHenry. Inside the Visitor’s Center, we watched a film about how The Star-Spangled Banner was written. On September 14, 1814, after a relentless 25-hour British bombardment during the War of 1812, Francis Scott Key looked out and saw the American flag still flying. Inspired, he penned the poem originally titled “Defence of Fort M’Henry.”

As the film ended, the lights dimmed. Slowly — almost reverently — the floor-to-ceiling drapes began to open. And there it was. The largest American flag I had ever seen, stretching upward in breathtaking silence.

We all gasped.

I have never been so moved by our flag as I was in that moment. It wasn’t political. It wasn’t loud. It was simply powerful. A visual reminder that through bombardment — literal and figurative — we are still standing.

And then came this morning.

I walked in from the gym and the house was buzzing. The USA men’s hockey team was tied with Canada and heading into overtime for the Gold Medal in the 2026 Winter Olympics. I dropped my bag and joined the crowd in my own living room. Ten minutes later, Jack Hughes took the shot that sealed it. USA. Gold Medal.

Just like that.

It brought me right back to the 1980 “Miracle on Ice” — that scrappy, determined group of young men who captured gold and our hearts at the 1980 Winter Olympics.

Thirty minutes later, there we were — hands over hearts — singing along with the team as the National Anthem echoed through the arena. Their eyes were glassy. So were ours. They represented our country, and in that moment, they made us all stand a little taller.

So if you ask me whether I’m patriotic?

Yes. I am.

No matter who is in charge. No matter the season. No matter the noise.

For me, patriotism isn’t about perfection. It’s about pride. It’s about remembering where we’ve been, honoring those who stood before us, and believing — always believing — that when the drapes open and the flag is revealed, we will still be here.

Standing. Singing. Waving.

This morning I read a fabulous post from one of my favorite authors, Tracie (please do yourself a favor and visit Squiggle Line Cafe — she’s wonderful). She wrote about lunchboxes from back in the day and just like that, I was transported.

Until Fourth Grade, I was the proud owner of a tin lunchbox featuring The Bugaloos — yes, that Saturday morning masterpiece brought to us by Sid and Marty Krofft. The lunchbox was embossed on the front in all its psychedelic glory. It had a metal hinge and clasp that could be heard opening from the other end of the cafeteria. There was no such thing as a quiet entrance when you carried The Bugaloos.

Inside sat the matching thermos — either filled with Campbell’s soup in the colder months or lemonade when the sun decided to show off. That lunchbox was more than a container. It was a status symbol. A conversation starter. A piece of personality.

It held a prime seat each day at Central Boulevard Elementary School, where thirty of your closest friends gathered around long tables under fluorescent lighting that did none of us any favors. Before we even took a bite, we would survey the scene. Who had what? Was there a Hostess cupcake in sight? Pretzels? A pudding cup? Occasionally — and I mean occasionally — a coveted trade would take place. Negotiations were swift. Serious. Binding.

And then there were the days when The Bugaloos stayed home at 36 Grant Avenue and I opted for cafeteria cuisine.

Oh, the confidence.

I would waltz right up to the lunch lady in her hairnet as if I had a reservation.

“I’ll have the special.”

Would you like a side salad with dressing, Miss Eastwood?

Why yes. Yes, I would, Mrs. Lunch Lady.

Back then, it felt like a five-star establishment. The round Friday pizza. The mystery-meat Mondays. That iceberg lettuce salad that I can still smell to this day (and not in a good way). But in the moment? It was divine. It was independence. It was grown-up.

Every meal was served on a sturdy melamine tray with tidy compartments — our very own version of a TV dinner. Everything in its place. Orderly. Predictable. Safe.

But nothing — and I mean nothing — compared to what happened when someone dropped their tray.

There was a stainless steel bucket outside the cafeteria doors where you deposited your used tray. Every now and then, someone would misstep. A sneaker would catch. A hand would slip. And down it went.

Crash.

The tray would hit the green tile floor with a dramatic smash, aluminum silverware scattering like confetti. The sound echoed off the walls.

Then came the silence.

Three… maybe four seconds of absolute stillness. A hush so complete you could hear your own heartbeat.

And then—

The eruption.

The entire cafeteria would leap to its feet in thunderous, stadium-worthy applause. The kind reserved for rock stars taking the stage. It was instantaneous and unanimous. A rite of passage. We always felt terrible for the unfortunate soul standing amid the carnage… but the applause? Legendary.

To this day, that memory makes me laugh out loud.

My dining experiences have certainly evolved over the years. I’ve enjoyed meals in beautiful restaurants with linen napkins and candlelight. I’ve tasted cuisine I couldn’t pronounce in cities far from Central Boulevard.

But none of it quite compares to those 42 minutes each school day when food and friendship sat side by side on a plastic tray.

Fine dining, indeed.

Sometimes the best restaurants in the world aren’t the ones with five stars — they’re the ones with fluorescent lights, round pizza, and a standing ovation you never saw coming.

 The alarm rang at 4 a.m.

I crawled down the hall and popped into the shower. We had planned for this. Pre-op appointments. Ice packs in the freezer. Blankets fluffed and ready. I knew it would be a long day, but I was ready.

Ernie was scheduled for shoulder surgery and we needed to be at the hospital by 6 a.m. Two weeks of preparation finally brought us to this morning.

Last month he fell off the top step on the back patio trying to photograph the Northern Lights. No magical sky pictures. Just a busted shoulder that unraveled the hard-earned success of his second rotator cuff surgery ten years ago. Four pins floating around where they most certainly did not belong.

Some days we are crazed squirrels running in opposite directions looking for car keys and favorite hoodies. But today? Today we were a well-oiled machine. Quiet. Efficient. Focused. We walked out the door like a team that had studied the playbook.

The drive was short, but at 5:37 a.m. the world already felt loud. Horns honking. A couple arguing in the parking lot. Headlights cutting through the early morning gray.

I glanced over at Ernie in the passenger seat. He was tense. And that caught me.

He’s a big guy with nerves of steel. A retired Corrections Officer. A Volunteer Firefighter for over forty years. He’s seen things most of us can’t even imagine. The kind of man who runs toward chaos when everyone else runs away. But surgery? Surgery makes you hand over control. And that’s a different kind of bravery.

The hospital doors slid open and then shut behind us. Outside noise muted instantly.

Forms exchanged. ID badges clipped on. A team of nurses swept in and brought Ern back to the OR prep room. Thirty minutes later they came for me. The anesthesiologist arrived. More forms. More signatures. Finally the doctor walked in — our orthopedist for years now. We’re on a first-name basis. Not exactly a club you want to belong to, but here we are.

Then the nurses walked me back out.

Time to wait.

If there’s one thing I do well, it’s observe. I am a fierce people watcher. I talk to everyone. I listen with my whole body. And as I sat there, here’s what I saw:

Deep compassion.

Outside chaos.

Inside calm.

Every person within those walls moved with purpose but never with panic. They smiled. They touched arms gently while speaking. They made steady eye contact. No rushed glances at phones. No distracted nods. Just honest-to-goodness human interaction.

It struck me.

In a place where fear quietly sits in every chair, kindness becomes oxygen.

No one raised their voice. No one rolled their eyes. They explained things twice. They reassured. They paused. They looked you in the face like you mattered — because you did.

And it made me think — we are capable of this everywhere.

Not just in hospitals. Not just when something is broken. Not just when we are scared.

We can choose calm over chaos.

Connection over confrontation.

Kindness over noise.

Ernie was wheeled back hours later — groggy, stitched, repaired. The surgeon said it went well. Four renegade pins handled. Shoulder rebuilt again.

As we drove home, the morning felt different than it had at 5:37 a.m. Still traffic. Still horns. Still people rushing.

But inside our car?

Calm.

Sometimes healing isn’t just what happens in the operating room. Sometimes it’s what happens in the waiting room. In the quiet moments when strangers show up with compassion and remind you that humanity is still very much intact.

And maybe that’s the solid takeaway.

When the world feels loud, be the hospital hallway.

Be the steady hand.

Be the calm inside someone else’s chaos.

Because kindness — real, eye-contact, hand-on-the-arm kindness — might just be the strongest medicine we have.

Albert Einstein famously said that the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again while expecting a different result. I don’t know about you, but I am absolutely guilty of this every so often. I get stuck in a familiar loop, convincing myself, this has to work this time. Same effort. Same approach. Same outcome.

Today is February 2nd — Groundhog Day. The day we collectively wait to see whether a groundhog (most famously Punxsutawney Phil) sees his shadow. Shadow means six more weeks of winter. No shadow means an early spring. This blonde only realized a few years ago that spring technically arrives in six weeks anyway… but traditions are traditions, and here we are.

While it’s not an official holiday, February 2nd gave us a gift back in 1993: the movie Groundhog Day, starring Bill Murray as Phil Connors, a cynical local weatherman sent to cover the festivities in Punxsutawney, Pennsylvania. A snowstorm traps Phil and his crew overnight — except Phil doesn’t just spend the night. He ends up reliving the same 24 hours over and over again.

I won’t recount the entire movie here (though I could — it’s firmly in my top five cinematic picks), but what I will say is this: the film is a master class in what happens when we stay the same.

Phil wakes up every morning at 6:00 a.m. to Sonny & Cher’s I’ve Got You Babe. At first, he repeats every move from the day before. Then he starts experimenting. Each new morning becomes a chance to change things — indulgence, arrogance, charm, cruelty, excess. He tries being outrageously rude. He tries being wildly self-serving. He tries manipulating outcomes. Yet no matter what he does — good or bad — the result never changes. He is stuck. Eternally.

As the story unfolds, Phil falls in love with his producer, Rita. Day after day, he learns her likes, her quirks, her values. In one scene, he orders her exact cocktail — knowledge gained from countless previous days — and offers a toast: “I like to say a prayer and drink to world peace.” Rita is stunned by the synchronicity. It feels magical. Meant to be.

But the magic doesn’t actually come from knowing the script. It comes later.

It isn’t until Phil stops trying to control the outcome — stops performing, manipulating, repeating — and starts genuinely changing himself that time finally moves forward. He learns. He gives. He becomes kind without expecting anything in return. He learns to love Rita, yes — but more importantly, he learns to love who he is becoming.

And only then does the alarm clock change. Only then does February 3rd arrive.

That’s the quiet truth hidden inside Groundhog Day: nothing changes unless you change. Not the day. Not the season. Not the outcome. We can wake up to the same song every morning and swear this time will be different — but until we do something differently, until we choose growth over habit, awareness over autopilot, we’ll keep living the same day.

Sometimes the shadow isn’t cast by a groundhog at all. Sometimes it’s our own unwillingness to change.

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It’s easy for any one of us to get caught up in the thick of things. A conversation. A situation at work. Bad news. Or sometimes, oddly enough, a string of good things happening too fast. Life gains momentum and suddenly we’re sprinting without realizing we’ve lost our footing. Before we know it, we’re stuck in a full-blown Lather. Rinse. Repeat. loop—reacting instead of responding, running plays that aren’t getting us anywhere.

I was having a conversation with my son yesterday when I could see his mood starting to tilt toward that familiar cliff of anxiety. His words came faster. His breathing shortened. I could almost hear his heart racing ahead of him. As expected, his voice began to rise. I remember thinking, Well, that escalated quickly.

And then—clear as day—I heard my father.

“Drop back and punt, Karen Anne.”

Now, I don’t know if it was my dad’s presence slipping quietly into the room—he left us two years ago yesterday—or just one of those instinctual mother moments where memory and muscle reflex collide. Either way, there it was. One of his Spitballs of Knowledge, perfectly timed.

My dad was famous for them. He had a deep bullpen of phrases and adages he rotated through our lives, always uncannily tailored to the exact moment we were in. “Drop Back and Punt” was a big one. We watched the New York Giants with him every Sunday from the time I was… three? Four? Football wasn’t just a game in our house—it was a language. We knew the plays, the rhythm, the patience required when a drive wasn’t going your way.

To my dad, “Drop Back and Punt” literally meant this: stop. Take two or three steps back—no more, that’s all the NFL allows—and punt the ball. Give yourself space. Reassess. Change the angle. Clear the field so you can regroup and move forward with intention instead of force.

That message—along with so many others—carried us through some pretty wacky moments, and some very serious ones too. It showed up in boardrooms, family kitchens, hospital waiting rooms, and long car rides where the answers weren’t obvious yet.

Yesterday, my son took that golden nugget from his grandfather and ran with it. He slowed his breathing. His shoulders dropped. The field opened up. Calmness replaced chaos.

And in that moment, I realized something: maybe my dad never really left the game. Maybe he just moved upstairs to the coaching booth. Quietly calling plays. Stepping in as Offensive Coordinator exactly when we need him. Reminding us that not every moment is meant to be charged ahead—sometimes the smartest move is to drop back, punt, and trust that there’s another drive coming.

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