Well, friends. Tonight I discovered something.
Apparently, while I have been happily writing, posting and wondering where some of my usual blog buddies have been… YOUR COMMENTS HAVE BEEN SITTING IN SPAM AND PENDING FOLDERS.
Yes. Spam.
Some of you have apparently been talking to me for quite some time while I have unknowingly been ignoring you.
I AM HORRIFIED. 😂
Please know that I would never intentionally ignore a comment. Your words, stories, encouragement, laughs and love are one of my absolute favorite parts of this little corner of the internet we have created together.
So if you commented and heard nothing but crickets from Kiki, please accept my sincerest apologies. It wasn’t me. It was the folder. And I am absolutely blaming technology because well, I’m not that strong in tech.
I am slowly digging through the comment graveyard now and finding little treasures from all of you that I never knew were there.
Thank you for reading. Thank you for commenting. Thank you for coming back. And most of all, thank you for all the loyalty and love you continue to send my way. I’m never leaving you!
Apparently some of that love just took a detour through Spam. ❤️
Carry on.
And check your folders, people. 😂
Sneaky little spam folder. It catches the ones we don’t want to read but also takes some good comments out with it. Crazy!!
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I’m now trying to go through it on the wordpress desktop version. Ugh! xoxoxo
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Yup I get it. Once you catch up. Check it daily. That’s what I do. There isn’t something in there everyday m, but it keeps volume down for sure.
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That is it. As you know I was a lunatic with work volume so I did not check every single thing for weeks (except yours and Bryan’s). It probably swirled out of control.
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It can just pop up on you for sure.
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Lmfao. It be like that sometimes. It’s weird how it happens.
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❤️
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The WordPress app can be quite finicky at times!
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Oh it is. Jetpack is even trickier.
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Spam folder has a function. You can set rules for yours, though.
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Baby steps. At least I’ve found it. Step 1. lol
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Finally found my spam bucket, too, thanks to Loia. Only had one comment in there! Definitely have a love/hate relationship with that bucket! Glad you found yours and that you had lots of love in it!
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❤️❤️❤️
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Trying to put on a positive spin, here. I guess I’d rather be thought of as Spam than, say, chopped liver. Just sayin’! Glad you got things straightened out, Karen!
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❤️❤️❤️ now I feel much better since I have a hold on this whole thing!
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This happened to me too, and I’m not sure why. I just checked my spam folder and found a single comment there. Now, I have to check the spam folder every time. Some people were telling me that my comments were thrown to their spam folder.
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Now I’m finding that not only is their spam and pending, but un replied comments as well
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🙂 isn’t it crazy how comments can slide through our sites like that? I swear it has something to do with the themes and how WP collates the sites for every single page. I can’t describe it but it’s such an atomized approach that I often find myself wondering if it really is efficient or they just want to keep it that way because of their existing business partnerships, I mean, not that I’ve got a problem with it! Mike
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Clearly something is up with it! There are gobs of comments in spam and pending. I’m truly mortified! Thank you my friend. Love your perspective. 😊
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This made me laugh, Kiki. Technology really does have a sense of humour sometimes! But honestly, I love how much you value the conversations here and the people who keep showing up. That warmth is exactly what makes this little blogging community special. I always enjoy our little exchanges in the comments, and your thoughtful words on my posts are genuinely appreciated.
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Thank you so very much! I too enjoy the exchanges. I truly value everyone I follow and who follows me!
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✨️😃
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Oh no I’m glad you found out 😂. Have an amazing school year this year.
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Thank you, my friend!
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Your so welcome
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When you get to mine, I just want to say sorry, I was drunk 😂😂
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Love your life my friend. I just love it. Need to catch up on your creations. They are amazing!
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Oh I know that feeling! I had to filter some stuff out last year, and I am afraid some things got or may still get pulled into it. And it is possible I don’t even see some things since at the time, I had to start with a narrow lens and widen it to solve for the issue. I’ve not had the heart to open it back up.
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Yes! For the most part I do most things here on my phone. Right now I’m on desktop while at work but this is WordPress. The phone app is Jetpack. I’m not sure what I’m missing on both platforms!
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I know some things I can’t see as well when on the tablet vs. the desktop, or they act differently. I would imagine it is the same with the phone, so I try to check that stuff while on the desktop.
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C’mon Kiki . . . you saw my comments and said “I wish these went into the spam folder. He’s just too crazy.” Haha. WP is a fun place. You never know what’s gonna happen or where the comments are gonna go.
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You kill me my friend! I love your posts so much. I learned from each and every one of them! So glad we are here supporting each other! 😊
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Ditto! That’s my incredibly articulate way of saying, yeah, what you said Kiki. Love your blog, love the authenticity and realness. Thank you!!!!!
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You are good with me! I’m still trying to get caught up after returning from our trip.
And believe me, I always check my spam folder—mainly because I somehow manage to end up there myself. Yes, I have actually sent myself junk mail unintentionally. It takes a hell of a lot of talent to spam yourself, but apparently I possess that particular gift.
Usually it happens when I find something I want to save—recipes, photos, bits of information, or news stories. I’ve even forwarded articles about myself so I wouldn’t lose them… only to lose them anyway and never find them again.
So don’t feel bad about this little blooper. Enjoy it. Consider it practice.
I promise you, it gets worse.
Benjamin
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I love that. I am in such good company! Lol thanks for making me giggle. Hope you are starting to settle in and getting back to your normal routine. Whatever that may be. Hope you guys are doing great.❤️❤️❤️
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is there a spam folder?????😱
I have noticed that sometimes my comment seem not to load may be that’s where the go 🤔
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Yesssss a spam/pending/unreplied. There is a whole massive behind the scenes thing going on here and I knew nothing about it!
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It took me years of blogging to realize I needed to check my spam folder lol
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Oh my goodness. I’d be honored. Let me jump into the link! ❤️
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Ah, the spam folder. 🤦🏻♂️ I try to check it at least once a day because I’m having the same problem.
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You are! I’m telling you I was mortified. ❤️
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I know, it’s a pain. The first time I noticed it was early last year, and I was confused and didn’t know what was going on until I found the folder.
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I am so damn proud of myself now that I know where it is. I am checking it again! Hope you had a great weekend or are still having a great weekend as it’s not completely over yet! Talk to you during the week.
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Wooohooo I’m happy for you. That’s a strange for you I’m sure because you’re such a good person and leave beautiful comments for others and then thinking we don’t reciprocate it haha but I’m so glad you figured it out
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Bryan for the assist on this one! Thank you! That said…I’m catching up on your blog and I have one waiting in the wings. Maybe two.
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I hate it when that happens
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